A Return of Hostages
A real commitment also requires a certain extent of self-sacrifice. Being that we have limited time, resources and energy, when we say yes to one person, client, or job, essentially we are also saying no to someone or something else.
In Yiddish there is a popular expression, “Mir Ken Nisht Tantzen Oif Tzvei Chasunos,” loosely translated, “we cannot dance at two weddings (simultaneously)”. While we make time for the things that are most essential to us, we are also sacrificing other comforts, luxuries or even important things that may not make it to the top of our to-do list.