Hey Siri!
Hey Siri, what’s the weather forecast for this week? Alexa, please turn off the lights. Hey Siri, what is the Shabbat candle lighting time in Dobbs Ferry for this evening?
Along with the incredible technological advancements and development of artificial intelligence over the last few decades, we have also come to better appreciate the power of our speech. We can be literally “talking to the walls” while accomplishing a great deal of things.
The Life of Joe Lieberman
Last week, the late former senator Joe Lieberman of blessed memory was laid to rest among family, friends, and dignitaries. Among his many accomplishments was making history as the first Jewish candidate to represent a national party platform as Al Gore’s running mate during the 2000 presidential election. However, above all else, Lieberman's legacy is remembered for his proud observance of Judaism and his unwavering commitment to his values.
Bon Appétit!
We are all aware of the health benefits of eating daily nutritious meals. You may also be aware of the correlation between our mood and the types of food we eat. But did you know that our diet can also affect our character and sensitivity to morality and spirituality?
The origins of the phrase “You are what you eat” is actually sourced in the Torah. In this week’s portion Shmini, we learn about the identifying signs of a kosher animal.
College Dining
In the early 1960s, the global Jewish community was facing a severe crisis. Many Jewish men and women who were going to out-of-town colleges were losing touch with their Judaism and intermarrying. At first the number was three percent, but this number was going up rapidly at an alarming rate.
Rabbi Ephraim Sturm, CEO of National Council of Young Israel at the time, related: “I called together the officers of Young Israel and I said, ‘We have a problem!’ We agonized over it, and we decided to ask a number of Jewish leaders what to do.
Passion Vs. Apathy
There is a humorous anecdote told of an English studies teacher who once asked her student, “What's the difference between ignorance & apathy?", to which the disinterested student replies, "I don’t know and I don’t care".
In truth, the two are actually closely linked.
An Inverted Reality
Following the miraculous hostage rescue in Rafah over a month ago (as detailed in last week's email), a few of the officers who took part in the mission shared their experiences during an impactful media interview:
“Was the risk worth the rescue of two people?” the reporter asked. Commander D doesn't think for long and answers: "We don't look at in terms of a person being worth the life of another, and if two soldiers die the operation is a failure. It's not a zero-sum game. There is something here that's far bigger in its substance. I won't say that we in the unit are worth less, but we've taken on ourselves the understanding that we're ready to be harmed for something bigger than a single person, that's who we are."
Celebrating Life
On Purim we celebrate one of the most joyous times of the year- the holiday of Purim.
It commemorates the (Divinely orchestrated) salvation of the Jewish people in the ancient Persian empire from Haman’s plot “to destroy, kill and annihilate all the Jews, young and old, infants and women, in a single day.” Literally “lots” in ancient Persian, Purim was so named since Haman had thrown lots to determine when he would carry out his diabolical scheme, as recorded in the Megillah (book of Esther).
Commitment
A real commitment also requires sacrifice to a certain extent. Being that we have limited time, resources and energy, when we say yes to one person, client, or job, essentially we are also saying no to someone or something else.
In Yiddish there is a popular expression, “Mir Ken Nisht Tantzen Oif Tzvei Chasunos,” loosely translated, “we cannot dance at two weddings (simultaneously)”. While we make time for the things that are most essential to us, we are also sacrificing other comforts, luxuries or even important things that may not make it to the top of our to-do list.
The Return of Hostages
At 1:49 a.m. on February 11, 2024, Israeli special forces carried out a complex and perilous hostage rescue operation in Rafah. Israel's elite officers employed their bodies as shields to protect two hostages amidst a flurry of bullets during the dramatic pre-dawn raid that liberated the captives.
The success of the operation relied on a synchronized assault, which involved targeted airstrikes against Hamas terrorist positions. These airstrikes served to divert the attention of the terrorists and eliminate potential threats, thereby enabling the safe extraction of two Jewish hostages, Fernando Simon Marman and Louis Har.
Anatevka
While the name Anatevka is famously known as the village from “Fiddler on the Roof”, in recent years, the modern village of Anatevka was established by Rabbi Moshe Azman, one of the Chabad representative in Kiev, to house refugees attempting to escape the Russian bombing on the eastern border of Ukraine.
A Gift Which Money Can’t Buy
Kivi Bernhard, an international keynote speaker and author of the highly acclaimed "Leopardology: The Hunt For Profit In a Tough Global Economy," received an invitation to deliver the opening address at a prominent Microsoft conference. The event was expected to host hundreds of international figures vital to Microsoft's business, including Bill Gates.
The Big Picture
“Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff”. This popular saying is often used to remind ourselves or others that it isn't worth getting upset or stressed about minor issues.
Effective managers are able to share the vision of their company with their employees and partners so that while each team member may be preoccupied with their specific tasks on a daily basis, they also understand how their work contributes to the success of the business as a whole. This realization motivates each member of the team to carry out even seemingly trivial tasks with the greatest care and at the same time not allow inconsequential challenges to consume them.
Israel: Post October 7
Uvda, described by Variety as “the local equivalent to CBS News' 60 Minutes”, ran a segment that featured United Hatzalah members Avi and Avi who had been celebrating Shabbat and the holiday with their families and community when they first heard the news of the horrific attacks on October 7th. Following the Torah's injunction that saving a life supersedes all other laws, they jumped into their ambulance and started heading south.
Priorities: Business or Clients?
Providing good customer service is an important part of any successful business. However, to what extent should a company be ready to accommodate a client's request or perhaps absorb a financial loss? What if the loss came as a result of extraneous circumstances such as a pandemic which is beyond the control of the business or the client?
Priorities
With only so much time in our day and with a finite amount of resources and energy, we are often faced with the challenge of prioritizing and choosing between various responsibilities and opportunities to engage with at any given moment.
This may express itself in finding the right work-life balance such as choosing between staying an extra hour in the office or returning home to spend quality time with our children before they go to bed. Or it may manifest itself in how we choose to invest our philanthropic dollars or community engagement.
Unconditional Love
A little while ago, after being disciplined for misbehavior, my son innocently asked me, “Do you still love me?”
It’s easy to dismiss children’s words as just blabber. Though, often enough, the most profound ideas and insights can be gleaned from the expressions and refreshing questions of small children.
By asking “Do you still love me”, he was essentially wondering if a parent's love to a child is unconditional or if it is conditional on good behavior.
Chosen for What?
In a well-known quote from "Fiddler on the Roof," Tevye gazes heavenward and ponders on his many misfortunes, "Dear G-d…I know, I know. We are Your chosen people. But, once in a while, can't You choose someone else?"
For good or for worse, the nations of the world have always been obsessed with the Jewish people. Despite Israel's best efforts to prove that it is just like any other country, the world will always treat Israel differently. Indeed, what does it mean to be the Chosen People?
Think Big
Several years ago, renowned Radio & TV Host personality Dave Ramsey addressed a diverse audience of thousands at a convention and shared insights from a book that he felt had changed his life.
The book, "Thou Shall Prosper" by Rabbi Daniel Lapin, delves into how the Jewish people have had the tendency to prosper way beyond their population size in every setting they have ever been in throughout history. The Jewish people today, constituting only 3% of the American population, remarkably make up 67% of the Forbes 400 list.
Reciprocity
Throughout all stages in life and the various relationships we develop, we tend to be both a recipient and a provider.
Children are dependent on their parents for food, shelter and basic necessities, while they give boundless joy, Nachas, and love to their parents in return.
Educators and mentors guide and greatly impact the lives of their students by instilling within them exemplary morals and imparting them with invaluable wisdom and inspiration. In turn, students give their teachers and mentors a sense of fulfillment while helping them crystalize and better understand their subject matters.
Altruism & Happiness
Israel is ranked as the fourth happiest country in the world, according to the UN-sponsored World Happiness Report. The obvious question arises: how can Israel, the only civilized nation under constant mortal danger, maintain such happiness? Despite ongoing threats from Iran and its terrorist proxies like Hamas and Hezbollah, along with facing global boycotts and condemnations, what are the sources of this happiness?